Do you fantasize about a sweet, smart, noble, hot, hunk who's willing to sleep in the wet spot? Well that's me, but are you sure that's what you want? Are you sure you don't only want the fantasy, and the second you get what you want, you won't want it anymore? In all cases I measure the value of my relationships by the value of the other people in those relationships, not by what I've attained through my desires.
